What is love

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INTRODUCTION

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

William Shakespeare.

What is love? This is one of the most difficult issues that concern humanity. For centuries, people try to find the answer and find out exactly what love is. Philosophers, writers, poets and musicians give their definitions and statements, but what love is, in fact, no one can say.

Love is that feeling you get when you meet the right person.

This is how many people approach a relationship. Consciously or unconsciously, they believe love is a sensation (based on physical and emotional attraction) that magically, spontaneously generates when Mr. or Ms. Right appears. And just as easily, it can spontaneously degenerate when the magic "just isn't there" anymore. You fall in love, and you can fall out of it.

Throughout its existence, a man tries to unravel the mystery of love. Love is very different, and these kinds of love are intertwined in our lives in a tangle, enriching it with new emotions and experiences. Love can be between two or more individuals, linking them together by ties of intimate feelings, faith and unity. Depending on, among whom there is love, it can also be different, and this, too, know all. The depth of this feeling, too, can be infinite.

In life, people fall in love at many stages. It is very possible for every person no matter their age to feel or fall in love. However, there is a certain stage in life where we reach and everyone seems to want love. I'm talking about the teenage years and love. When a teenager falls in love, it is referred to as teenage love. Teens are very volatile people and this is pretty understandable. It is the first time in life to feel the urge to love the opposite sex. This is on the onset of their physical growth. Their hormones are usually referred to as running wild and this is very much the case. Teenage is a confusing place to be because you are not old enough to be called mature and you are not too young to be called a child. This is the time where most youth act out and when it comes to the matters of the heart, a lot of them fall in love. Teenage love has sometimes been referred to as not being real love.

Exactly this problem is going to be touched upon in this work. I am a teenager and I believe that teenage love is real love.

What is love?

What is love? It is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some Love is friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind.

Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true.

Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all. A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe.

Love is an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment. In philosophical context, love is a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection. Love is central to many religions, as in the Christian phrase, "God is love" or Agape in the Canonical gospels. Love may also be described as actions towards others (or oneself) based on compassion. Or as actions towards others based on affection.

In English, the word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure ("I loved that meal") to intense interpersonal attraction ("I love my partner"). "Love" can also refer specifically to the passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love, to the sexual love of eros (cf. Greek words for love), to the emotional closeness of familial love, or to the platonic love that defines friendship, to the profound oneness or devotion of religious love. This diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional states.

Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts.

The word "love" can have a variety of related but distinct meanings in different contexts. Often, other languages use multiple words to express some of the different concepts that English relies mainly on "love" to encapsulate; one example is the plurality of Greek words for "love." Cultural differences in conceptualizing love thus make it doubly difficult to establish any universal definition.

Although the nature or essence of love is a subject of frequent debate, different aspects of the word can be clarified by determining what isn't love. As a general expression of positive sentiment (a stronger form of like), love is commonly contrasted with hate (or neutral apathy); as a less sexual and more emotionally intimate form of romantic attachment, love is commonly contrasted with lust; and as an interpersonal relationship with romantic overtones, love is sometimes contrasted with friendship, although the word love is often applied to close friendships.

Love is one of human emotions, the scientific study of which was devoted to a set of works: from Stendhal and its crystallization of love and ending with modern by studies of hormonal components of the experience of love.

Recent studies conducted by psychologists, philosophers and religious leaders worldwide, have shown that, despite various forms of love, every kind of love in their own creative, and it is love that rules the world, most clearly manifested in the works - poetry, music, literature, painting and sculpture. Love necessarily implies the compatibility of individuals. Very often it is the compatibility is the deciding factor in love - can be absolute unanimity of views and a large community of interests, combined with an attraction to each other, but if there is no compatibility, then love is doomed. Of course, when it comes to passing or short-term relationship, the aspect of compatibility is not so important. But if we consider the special relationship in the future, the compatibility is the key to success in long-term romantic relationships. Nobody is perfect, but we must learn to understand and feel each other, and psychological and physical compatibility of individuals helps to build relationships. All loving and passionate people are dependent on a combination and interaction of four hormones: dopamine, serotonin, testosterone and estrogen. That is, for each model the behavior meets one or another hormone.

Throughout history, philosophy and religion have done the most speculation on the phenomenon of love. In the last century, the science of psychology has written a great deal on the subject. In recent years, the sciences of evolutionary psychology, evolutionary biology, anthropology, neuroscience, and biology have added to the understanding of the nature and function of love.

Depending on context, love can be of different varieties. Romantic love is a deep, intense and unending. It shared on a very intimate and interpersonal and sexual relationship. The term Platonic love, familial love and religious love are also matter of great affection. It is more of desire, preference and feelings. The meaning of love will change with each different relationship and depends more on its concept of depth, versatility, and complexity. But at times the very existence of love is questioned. Some say it is false and meaningless. It says that it never exist, because there has been many instances of hatred and brutality in relationships. The history of our world has witnessed many such events. There has been hatred between brothers, parents and children, sibling rivalry and spouses have failed each other. Friends have betrayed each other; the son has killed his parents for the throne, the count is endless. Even the modern generation is also facing with such dilemmas everyday. But love is not responsible for that. It is us, the people, who have forgotten the meaning of love and have undertaken such gruesome apathy.

In the past the study of philosophy and religion has done many speculations on the phenomenon of love. But love has always ruled, in music, poetry, paintings, sculptor and literature. Psychology has also done lot of dissection to the essence of love, just like what biology, anthropology and neuroscience has also done to it.

Psychology portrays love as a cognitive phenomenon with a social cause. It is said to have three components in the book of psychology: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Also, in an ancient proverb love is defined as a high form of tolerance. And this view has been accepted and advocated by both philosophers and scholars. Love also includes compatibility. But it is more of journey to the unknown when the concept of compatibility comes into picture. Maybe the person whom we see in front of us, may be least compatible than the person who is miles away. We might talk to each other and portray that we love each other, but practically we do not end up into any relationship. Also in compatibility, the key is to think about the long term successful relationship, not a short journey. We need to understand each other and must always remember that no body is perfect.

So what is love -- real, lasting love?

Love is the attachment that results from deeply appreciating another's goodness.

Love is the attachment that results from deeply appreciating another's goodness.

The word "goodness" may surprise you. After all, most love stories don't feature a couple enraptured with each other's ethics. ("I'm captivated by your values!" he told her passionately. "And I've never met a man with such morals!" she cooed.) But in her study of real-life successful marriages ("The Good Marriage: How and Why Love Lasts"), Judith Wallerstein reports that "the value these couples placed on the partner's moral qualities was an unexpected finding."

So, too, we seek goodness in others. Nice looks, an engaging personality, intelligence, and talent (all of which count for something) may attract you, but goodness is what moves you to love.

LOVE IS A CHOICE

If love comes from appreciating goodness, it needn't just happen -- you can make it happen. Love is active. You can create it. Just focus on the good in another person (and everyone has some). If you can do this easily, you'll love easily.

Obviously, there's a huge distance from here to the far more profound, personal love developed over the years, especially in marriage. But seeing goodness is the beginning.

By focusing on the good, you can love almost anyone.

ACTIONS AFFECT FEELINGS

Now that you're feeling so warmly toward the entire human race, how can you deepen your love for someone? For example, if you want to become more compassionate, thinking compassionate thoughts may be a start, but giving charity will get you there. Likewise, the best way to feel loving is to be loving -- and that means giving.

While most people believe love leads to giving, the truth is exactly the opposite: Giving leads to love.

What is giving? When an enthusiastic handyman happily announces to his non- mechanically inclined wife, "Honey, wait till you see what I got you for your birthday -- a triple-decker toolbox!" that's not giving. Neither is a father's forcing violin lessons on his son because he himself always dreamed of being a virtuoso.

True giving, as Erich Fromm points out, is other-oriented, and requires four elements. The first is care, demonstrating active concern for the recipient's life and growth. The second is responsibility, responding to his or her expressed and unexpressed needs (particularly, in an adult relationship, emotional needs). The third is respect, "the ability to see a person as he [or she] is, to be aware of his [or her] unique individuality," and, consequently, wanting that person to "grow and unfold as he [or she] is." These three components all depend upon the fourth, knowledge. You can care for, respond to, and respect another only as deeply as you know him or her.

OPENING YOURSELF TO OTHERS

The effect of genuine, other-oriented giving is profound. It allows you into another person's world and opens you up to perceiving his or her goodness. At the same time, it means investing part of yourself in the other, enabling you to love this person as you love yourself.

The more you give, the more you love.

This is why your parents (who've given you more than you'll ever know) undoubtedly love you more than you love them, and you, in turn, will love your own children more than they'll love you.

Because deep, intimate love emanates from knowledge and giving, it comes not overnight but over time -- which nearly always means after marriage. The intensity many couples feel before marrying is usually great affection boosted by commonality, chemistry, and anticipation. These may be the seeds of love, but they have yet to sprout. On the wedding day, emotions run high, but true love should be at its lowest, because it will hopefully always be growing, as husband and wife give more and more to each other.

Dr. Jill Murray (author of "But I Love Him: Protecting Your Daughter from Controlling, Abusive Dating Relationships") writes that if someone mistreats you while professing to love you, remember: "Love is a behavior." A relationship thrives when partners are committed to behaving lovingly through continual, unconditional giving -- not only saying, "I love you," but showing it.

Be together, share your joy and sorrow, understand each other, provide space to each other, but always be there for each others need. And surely love will blossom to strengthen your relationship with your matter of affection.

Although the nature or essence of love is a subject of frequent debate, different aspects of the word can be clarified by determining what isn't love. As a general expression of positive sentiment (a stronger form of like), love is commonly contrasted with hate (or neutral apathy); as a less sexual and more emotionally intimate form of romantic attachment, love is commonly contrasted with lust; and as an interpersonal relationship with romantic overtones, love is sometimes contrasted with friendship, although the word love is often applied to close friendships.

Fraternal love (Prehispanic sculpture from 250-900 A.D., of Huastec origin). Museum of Anthropology in Xalapa, Veracruz, Mexico.

When discussed in the abstract, love usually refers to interpersonal love, an experience felt by a person for another person. Love often involves caring for or identifying with a person or thing (cf. vulnerability and care theory of love), including oneself (cf. narcissism). In addition to cross-cultural differences in understanding love, ideas about love have also changed greatly over time. Some historians date modern conceptions of romantic love to courtly Europe during or after the Middle Ages, although the prior existence of romantic attachments is attested by ancient love poetry.^[

Because of the complex and abstract nature of love, discourse on love is commonly reduced to a thought-terminating clichй, and there are a number of common proverbs regarding love, from Virgil's "Love conquers all" to The Beatles' "All You Need Is Love". St. Thomas Aquinas, following Aristotle, defines love as "to will the good of another." Bertrand Russell describes love as a condition of "absolute value," as opposed to relative value. Philosopher Gottfried Leibniz said that love is "to be delighted by the happiness of another."

Love is sometimes referred to as being the "international language", overriding cultural and linguistic divisions.

Chemical basis

Biological models of sex tend to view love as a mammalian drive, much like hunger or thirst. ^[Helen Fisher, a leading expert in the topic of love, divides the experience of love into three partly overlapping stages: lust, attraction, and attachment. Lust exposes people to others; romantic attraction encourages people to focus their energy on mating; and attachment involves tolerating the spouse (or indeed the child) long enough to rear a child into infancy.

Lust is the initial passionate sexual desire that promotes mating, and involves the increased release of chemicals such as testosterone and estrogen. These effects rarely last more than a few weeks or months. Attraction is the more individualized and romantic desire for a specific candidate for mating, which develops out of lust as commitment to an individual mate forms. Recent studies in neuroscience have indicated that as people fall in love, the brain consistently releases a certain set of chemicals, including pheromones, dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin, which act in a manner similar to amphetamines, stimulating the brain's pleasure center and leading to side effects such as increased heart rate, loss of appetite and sleep, and an intense feeling of excitement. Research has indicated that this stage generally lasts from one and a half to three years.

Since the lust and attraction stages are both considered temporary, a third stage is needed to account for long-term relationships. Attachment is the bonding that promotes relationships lasting for many years and even decades. Attachment is generally based on commitments such as marriage and children, or on mutual friendship based on things like shared interests. It has been linked to higher levels of the chemicals oxytocin and vasopressin to a greater degree than short-term relationships have. Enzo Emanuele and coworkers reported the protein molecule known as the nerve growth factor (NGF) has high levels when people first fall in love, but these return to previous levels after one year.

Psychological basis

Psychology depicts love as a cognitive and social phenomenon. Psychologist Robert Sternberg formulated a triangular theory of love and argued that love has three different components: intimacy, commitment, and passion. Intimacy is a form in which two people share confidences and various details of their personal lives, and is usually shown in friendships and romantic love affairs. Commitment, on the other hand, is the expectation that the relationship is permanent. The last and most common form of love is sexual attraction and passion. Passionate love is shown in infatuation as well as romantic love. All forms of love are viewed as varying combinations of these three components. American psychologist Zick Rubin sought to define love by psychometrics in the 1970s. His work states that three factors constitute love: attachment, caring, and intimacy.

Following developments in electrical theories such as Coulomb's law, which showed that positive and negative charges attract, analogs in human life were developed, such as "opposites attract." Over the last century, research on the nature of human mating has generally found this not to be true when it comes to character and personality--people tend to like people similar to themselves. However, in a few unusual and specific domains, such as immune systems, it seems that humans prefer others who are unlike themselves (e.g., with an orthogonal immune system), since this will lead to a baby that has the best of both worlds. In recent years, various human bonding theories have been developed, described in terms of attachments, ties, bonds, and affinities.

Some Western authorities disaggregate into two main components, the altruistic and the narcissistic. This view is represented in the works of Scott Peck, whose work in the field of applied psychology explored the definitions of love and evil. Peck maintains that love is a combination of the "concern for the spiritual growth of another," and simple narcissism. In combination, love is an activity, not simply a feeling.

Noted psychologist Eric Fromm also maintained in his book "The art of loving" that love is not merely a feeling but is also actions, and that in fact, the "feeling" of love is superficial in comparison to ones commitment to love via a series of loving actions over time.^[ In this sense, Fromm held that love is ultimately not a feeling at all, but rather is a commitment to, and adherence to, loving actions towards another, ones self, or many others, over a sustained duration. Fromm also described Love as a conscious choice that in its early stages might originate as an involuntary feeling, but which then later no longer depends on those feelings, but rather depends only on conscious commitment.

Comparison of scientific models

Biological models of love tend to see it as a mammalian drive, similar to hunger or thirst. Psychology sees love as more of a social and cultural phenomenon. There are probably elements of truth in both views. Certainly love is influenced by hormones (such as oxytocin), neurotrophins (such as NGF), and pheromones, and how people think and behave in love is influenced by their conceptions of love. The conventional view in biology is that there are two major drives in love: sexual attraction and attachment. Attachment between adults is presumed to work on the same principles that lead an infant to become attached to its mother. The traditional psychological view sees love as being a combination of companionate love and passionate love. Passionate love is intense longing, and is often accompanied by physiological arousal (shortness of breath, rapid heart rate); companionate love is affection and a feeling of intimacy not accompanied by physiological arousal.

TEENAGE LOVE

Some people think of Teen Love and smile. It's not real love, they say. Puppy Love, they call it. Is it puppy love? Is it trial love? Is it true love? It seems that most teenagers are getting involved with members of the opposite sex as a form of entertainment. Those people, I think, have very short memories, and no longer recall the realities of their first love experiences. While few expect teen love to last a life time, that hardly makes it less real. Half or more of all adult love doesn't last a lifetime either. Teen love is very real and powerful. Perhaps at no other time in our lives are the joys and pains felt as strongly, or experienced more deeply. Who among us, after all, can ever forget our first love? Thus the first love which has happened during your teen age cannot be totally forgotten.

Is it puppy love? Is it trial love? Is it true love? It seems that most teenagers are getting involved with members of the opposite sex as a form of entertainment. But when getting involved with anyone it puts feelings on the line. A friend once told me that she was going out with a guy not because she loved him, but because she wanted something to do on weekends. When the relationship was over, she cried. Why did she cry? Was she actually in love with him? Or did this mean that she would have to pay for her own movie ticket for a while?

One of the relationships that lasted about a month (on and off) has taken several months from which to recover. It was so difficult for the girl to recover form it.What if he was my first true love? What if he is my only true love? What if I am destined to live the rest of my life alone because our fated romance died? You see, many real feelings were put on the line during that very short period of time and she was so much involved in that sort of love.

Because she was only 16 does this mean that her feelings are not mature? Is teenage love a different kind of love? I believe that teenage love is the first step to developing normal healthy relationships in the future. I've heard many people on TV talk how they will never forget their first love. Maybe that's because it taught them how to love. So perhaps teenage love is a steppingstone toward the paths we may choose in our lives. Love, whether new or old, is a way to share important things with a person you are close to and trust. All people need that. Teenagers need love more than anyone. Who else better to get love from than another teenager who's going through the same transitions that you are? Who's to say what kind of love is valid? All love is valid? This is what they had to say.

When you are seventeen you aren't really serious. There can be many stories of the teenage lovers and as such you can find that they turn out to be successful as well as not successful. Rather we find that this teenage love has more of a sexual inclination. First love - a special feeling, especially because it is - a new sensation never before experienced in its entirety. Certainly, until adolescence some manifestations of this experience undoubtedly arise - in the form of interest and desire to make friends, play together in games, etc., but rather a feeling of closeness and affection, rather than actual love. First Love enables us to develop the qualities that have hitherto been unknown to the child. This - the development of a sense of trust, compassion and empathy, the desire to explore their inner world, analyzing the character traits and actions, the desire to find common topics of conversation, be interesting and deep conversationalist. According to many authors, the state of love is typical for a teenager, but it has no explicit sexual motive and more like a romantic affair, where reality and fantasy form the interlacing. Young love. Adolescents. They - the most incredible - wonderful love. But parents, just, and fear it. When they see their child, that kiss at the entrance, their covers strange horror. At that time, they completely forget that experienced when something is the same. Man cannot live without love, it must in the process of getting some experience of life, including love. If a young man or woman comes up with some unattainable image of a loved one, it exhausts itself in a trap. When it comes to love, she was not warm, because it does not match the ideal. And it brings some pain and may even cause mental disorder. Adults need to explain to children what love is, you have to love certain people for what they have is that in any case you cannot create a collective image of a loved one, trying to think of it. Need love the most peculiar man in his youth. However, the natural and inevitable in this age surge of passion is not always called itself love, quite often at a great feeling of love is accepted. Love implies the uniqueness of the chosen one and, accordingly, the harmonious fusion of the three drives - the soul, mind and body. I also love this merger no emotional attachment is based on only one (maximum two) of the impulses: to respect, friendship or desire.

Adolescents are different feelings that are similar to love but not her, it is:

1. Attachment - it's a habit to see the person and communicate with him in due time.

2. Enthusiasm. It often occurs in young girls with respect to the stars of cinema and music. However, enthusiasm can be projected on the people who are close by. Psychologists say that this feeling is the closest to what is commonly called human love, or rather a true love.

3. Emotional connection - a relationship with the very essence of man, with his inner me. Relationship based on emotional connection, the psychologists call intrinsic relationship. And these relations are inseparable from the relationship of man to himself. That is how we love ourselves, so we love both. It turns out that emotional connection - a love for another of the abundance of love in his heart. It is this love does not go through the years.

Signs of love

1. If your love is genuine, you would be interested in the personality of your elected representative at large. In your feelings will be present and physical attraction, but only along with many other attractive qualities for you.

2. When you love truly, then you like all or most of the qualities in another person.

3. True love always comes slowly. You've got to know someone before you can truly love him, but this takes time, a lot of time to really know someone. Prolonged courtship much better short.

4. When you love truly, your senses will be more warm and affectionate than would range from ardent passion to cold indifference, they will be more permanent

5. If your love is genuine, manifest your best qualities and you strive to become even better.

6. When you really love, your lover man - the most important person in the world for you, but relationships with family and friends do not lose their value.

7. When you love to truly have a better chance that your parents and most friends approve of your choice.

8. When you really love, the absence of a loved one only sharpens your senses. True love must stand the test of distance and time. It is based not only on the physical attractiveness of a man, she takes it all, as a person. Time spent together helps you to "grow together". Therefore, for parting you would like to lose their part. Another man, even very attractive, cannot fill the emptiness in your heart. At a distance, you certainly can feel anxiety and sadness.

9. When you really love, you may have disagreements, but true love is going through them, and fights are becoming less frequent and severe, each pair must learn to resolve conflicts.

10. Love is selfless and devoted. Are you going to do everything possible to bring joy to others. You are primarily interested in what you can give and not receive.

 CONCLUSION

Love is work. It is a struggle, especially with him. It is the desire and ability to forgive, to give to give all that you have . It is faith in something pure and bright, no matter what . This is an internal force, which subsequently fills us and keep "afloat" . We cannot love to order by mail or come up with myself, but to educate themselves in the love we can and that's the way love this. Love - it is a higher sense of rights is a very strong sympathy and spiritual closeness. Love is rich emotional experiences, noble sentiments. This is the most beautiful thing is, this is the keyword of our lives. In love, it is important to the concept of free choice and self-denial. Readiness to do everything for the welfare of a loved one - one of the fundamental principles of this feeling.

Love makes people happy. Inspires, makes us the birds, butterflies flutter in a pair with each other, leaving behind a life all little things in life, troubles, problems and troubles. And even the biggest problem becomes only a trifle, which is not difficult to solve. Because we - TOGETHER. And when we're together - we are the mountains and the sea on the shoulder to the knee.

Giving in love its vitality and energy of another being, man shares with them their joy, and increasing its own, expanding their understanding of the world, enriching personal vision, experience, knowledge and experiences, which together constitute his spiritual wealth. In love a man gives to get, and gets to give. True love is a man burst response of energy, movement back towards generosity. 'Davani induces another person to become a giver, too, and they increase the joy brought into their lives. In the gift itself is the force that gives rise to love. "

Love involves caring about another person, an interest in improving his life and development. Where there is this, there can be no true love. Love - it is the responsibility of loving mercy, and for my loved one. This respect for him and actively penetrate into it to knowledge, but without violating the right to have secrets and remain a person. Passionate about learning from each love is different from the thoughtless and indifferent contemplation of thinking that is used as a learning tool soulless world. This knowledge through a spiritual approach, identification with the beloved person, feelings of identity with them. Man, deeply and truly loving someone, cannot love only him alone. Their gracious qualities of his love extends to other people around them. Loving, personally enriched by this feeling, it gives the excess to others in the form of kindness and warmth, sensitivity and humanity. There are several types of love: brotherly, motherly, erotic love, the love of man to himself and the love of God. The need for love lies in human nature itself. However, love - not an end in itself, shared values??, mutual understanding and assistance - that's the purpose for which love is the necessary impetus. Equality is perhaps the most solid and reliable foundation of love. Love does not tolerate violence, oppression, she is dying from it. The most important condition of deep and sincere love is a complete trust in each other, which leads to intellectual and emotional understanding, without which love cannot exist.

Teen love is very different from the love of an adult. True love in adolescence is extremely rare, since the physiological maturation occurs faster mining. Often occurs in teenagers love or infatuation. The desire to look older is appropriate behavior: courtship and interest in the opposite sex, notes, first date, first kiss. But not always this behavior is dictated by your needs, the more spiritual. Many teenagers start dating someone just because they are afraid of being alone. But it will not bring anything but trouble and bad memories, and is unlikely to be enjoyable. At this age are often afraid of someone else's opinions, especially those of peers. Afraid to be "some not so" (not so). The best, the best time to start relationships with the opposite sex teenager must determine for himself, or rather, feel. If he really likes someone from their peers and want to know about him (about it) more, we can assume that the time has come. Ideas about what should be the favorite person, often at odds with reality. Ideal image usually contains a lot of inflated, fictitious claims, and other important qualities are not recognized, go unnoticed.

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Wise sayings about love

“In life should be love - one great love for life, this justifies Causeless seizure despair that we are exposed.” Albert Camus.

“There is not force more powerful than love.” Stravinsky.

“Once you understand what love heals all, and love - is all that are in the world.” G. Zukav.

“Love - a priceless gift. The only thing that we can give it and yet it you've got left.” Leo Tolstoy.

“Love - is the lamp and illuminates the universe; without light of love Earth would become a barren desert, a people - Handful dust.” M. Braddon

“Love - the beginning and end of our existence. No love no life. That is why love is what I bow before what a wise man.” Confucius.

“ Oh how women and men can understand each other, because they both want different: a man wants woman, but woman wants a man.”

Fridesh Karinthy

Love - is so vast concept that no one can never fully express to the end of the whole range of feelings and emotions associated with the word "Love".

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AGE 13 - 17

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love feeling teenage

AGE 13 - 17

THE FIRST LOVE AGE

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Do you believe in love?

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